{"id":2105,"date":"2017-07-16T15:40:59","date_gmt":"2017-07-16T15:40:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/2code.info\/demo\/themes\/ask-me\/rtl\/?post_type=question&amp;p=2105"},"modified":"2017-07-16T15:40:59","modified_gmt":"2017-07-16T15:40:59","slug":"how-to-handle-personal-stress-caused-by-utterly-incompetent-and-lazy-co-workers","status":"publish","type":"question","link":"https:\/\/ctlive.online\/how-to-handle-personal-stress-caused-by-utterly-incompetent-and-lazy-co-workers\/","title":{"rendered":"How to handle personal stress caused by utterly incompetent and lazy co-workers?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019ve worked in Software Development teams my entire career and I\u2019ve come to realize the spectrum of skill-sets is utterly staggering. Over the years I\u2019ve managed to adapt my in-office behavior to handle utterly incompetent and lazy people.<\/p>\n<p>The way I handle it is to simply cap my anger and frustration, but I find myself going home and venting my anger in the form of complaining to my family and friends, but this is not healthy to me nor my family\/friends.<\/p>\n<p>How do I handle personal stress caused by utterly incompetent and lazy co-workers?<\/p>\n<p>Optional info below:<\/p>\n<p>In my younger years, I naively believed incompetent\/lazy people didn\u2019t cut it in the software industry for long. I disappointingly found that preferential treatment, nepotism, and just plain self-interest on the part of managers seem to undermine this natural filtering of idiots from the software engineering industry. Thus, it seems I must learn to deal with them.<\/p>\n<p>I have endless patience for people who are junior and ask numerous questions, but I don\u2019t seem to know how to handle stress caused by the utterly incompetent and lazy people that don\u2019t apply themselves.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","template":"","question-category":[1007],"question_tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ctlive.online\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/question\/2105"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ctlive.online\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/question"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ctlive.online\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/question"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ctlive.online\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ctlive.online\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2105"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ctlive.online\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2105"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"question-category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ctlive.online\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/question-category?post=2105"},{"taxonomy":"question_tags","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ctlive.online\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/question_tags?post=2105"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}